What is Valentines day really for?

Valentines day, geesh holiday for everything! Sure seems that way anyway. Why do we always have to give presents to show we care? To me it seems that giving a present is not what really shows love. Day to day actions and deeds, are the real way to show love. I personally would rather have my love by my side, laughing with me over a good movie, than a crystal heart pendant. We are so quick to give gifts to show love, but isn't that really the easy way out? It is a lot easier to go to a jewelry store and plop down 50$ for a necklace or ring, than it is to remain constant and intimate in your day to day relationship.  It means more to me when my love gives me a hug in earnest and asks if I am ok than any piece of mineral on a chain. Why are we as Americans so quick to pay / buy everything???

Every night when I check my son to make sure he is still tucked in and nice and warm after he goes to sleep....isn't that love? Or...getting up to get something for my love when he is tired after a long day, instead of him having to get up out of his cozy chair to get it for himself...isn't that showing love and care?

Love comes from inside of someone, not the mall. We all need to realize what His Holiness the Dalai Lama says, people are not so different, we all want the same things, love, kindness and compassion. I have never heard him say we all want something from Macy's.

So I think I will celebrate valentines day the right way this year, I will practice love, kindness and compassion. I can afford a TON of that;)